How to overcome your fear and become the incredibly powerful and confident speaker you’ve always imagined
LEEDS WORKSHOP | March 2024 |
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As I walked from the stage the 300 strong audience were still applauding. I walked back to my seat with my boss patting me on the back - congratulating me on a ‘job well done.’ This was the culmination of everything I’d learned. Standing in-front of 300+ peers and leading them through a talk that needed to change their perception of our department. That was the moment it all came together and transformed the way I was viewed by everyone in the organisation. I smiled. I knew it hadn’t always been like this…
As a teenager I was quiet and unassuming. A natural introvert with a natural pessimistic streak I would do anything to avoid making a presentation or talking in public. I just assumed it wasn’t something I was going to be skilled at. Public speaking was for the extroverts and the naturally confident. Like many people I assumed public speaking was something that you could either do or you couldn’t. You could learn the theory but what good is that when you don’t have the natural ability? I was to learn that this isn’t even close to being true. Fear was allowing life to pass by. My fear of what I called ‘raising my head above the paropet’ informed all of my decisions... If there was a chance that I would need to talk to a group of people (or be the centre of attention for any reason) I would find some excuse not to turn up. Even in meetings I would be the quiet one at the back not saying anything. My progress and my success was being crippled by my fear of public speaking and the imposter syndrome that drove it. My appraisals showed it had become the one stumbling block to my progress. Either I had to do something about it or I was doomed to a life of inertia and financial struggle. As I imagined a life of depressed stagnation I realised that nobody was doing this to me, I was responsible. Only I could... As soon as I came to this realisation I began to read books. Lots of books. About speaking, about confidence and about fear. I wrote notes. Lots of notes. I kept lists of the key learnings from each book I read. I began to study Neuro-Linguistic Programming and I learned that you can change the patterns that stop you from performing at your best. You can learn the process that other people have used to get extraordinary results.
I was suddenly able to make improved decisions and express myself better in my personal life too. Finances improved as new career choices opened up. I suddenly had new options that I never had before. I no longer avoided public speaking. Am I still an introvert? Yes, but now I have an assertiveness that means I am no longer the quiet one in meetings. I no longer avoid putting my head ‘above the parapet.’
I want to make sure you get the maximum value and benefit from this workshop. With this in mind it is limited to only 20 participants. Because of this you’ll benefit from a high level of individual attention and experience a deeper learning. This event WILL sell out quickly so please contact us today or register to secure your place for only £250!
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